2/7/2010: Saturday with Mom!

Benjamin and I (Marcie) spend most Saturday mornings on our own while Roger teaches classes (ugh!). We have little adventures together, get some food prepared for the week, and generally make a mess. (The mess disappears by the time Roger wakes up, so he usually never sees the kitchen covered in water or flour, or his kid covered in peanut butter.)

Ben is a chair sitter now, no need or want for a highchair except when we’re out to dinner or in the dining hall. A high chair outside the home is a must because, although he likes to eat, when he gets close to done or a little bored he tends to wander. That’s okay at home, but would be less than fun in a restaurant.

Ben and I have started making applesauce from the left over apples from the snack at my school. He likes to turn the food mill and especially likes to eat the warm applesauce. The food mill was my grandmother’s, it makes me happy to pass on a little bit of the love I had with her to my own son through cooking together. Since Ben’s allergy diagnosis (egg whites and dairy) we have modified recipes to substitute bananas and applesauce for the offensive eggs. So far, so good. Even banana coated french toast, it was tasty but stuck to the pan.

We all know Ben loves his peanut butter which he calls “butter”. His budding desire to be independent includes a passion for spreading his bread himself. He usually gets a little on the bread then discovers that there is MUCH peanut butter on the knife or spoon he’s using. He then proceeds to eat the peanut butter straight from the utensil. That’s efficiency!

Wed 2/3: A big wet one…

No, this post probably isn’t about what you might think. It’s actually about kissing. Ben has become quite the kissing bandit these days. He loves to come up to Marcie and me and plant a big, wet one on our face. Marcie usually gets it on the lips and I usually get it on the cheeks, but really there’s no telling exactly what will happen. Sometimes Ben comes after you with his mouth wide open, which can make things a little messy — we’ve got to teach him some decorum! But it is very sweet.

Tue 2/2: More words…

Ben seems to be talking more and more each day. He’s putting together two- and three-word sentences on a regular basis, although sometimes it’s pretty hard to tell what the words are. Still, it’s exciting to see his development.

Winter has brought some very dry, cracked skin to Ben, and we are trying to moisturize him constantly to make it less painful for him. Just one of the charms of a New England winter I suppose…

Fri 1/29: Night dumping…

One of the big steps in trying to potty train your child is figuring out their bathroom routine during the day. Unfortunately for Ben, he seems to be getting into the habit of pooping some time during the night (maybe early in the morning — I’m not sure). If we are going to train him to do it in the toilet, we’re going to either be in for some late night wake-ups, or else we’re going to have to figure out how to shift his toilet schedule to later in the day somehow. Last night was gross — he blew out his diaper and leaked through his PJs onto the mattress — yuck!

Tue 1/26: Speech therapy update…

Another good visit with the speech therapist today… she said that she was talking recently with Ben’s pediatrician and they were both pleased with his performance. His vocabulary is expanding rapidly and he can now put together some pretty sophisticated sentences. Today the ladies at day care reported that Ben said, “I want a turn” when he was playing with something. The trick now is going to be to work on Ben’s pronunciation, which is still hit-or-miss. It’s easy to tell that Ben is trying to say something all the time, but frequently it’s impossible to tell exactly what. No doubt that must be frustrating for him!

Sun 1/17: Swimming man!

Marcie had a good idea to take Ben swimming in the Hotchkiss pool last Sunday morning. He was a little apprehensive at first (I don’t blame him — that water is freezing!), but after getting in and walking around a little bit with Marcie, he seemed to really enjoy himself. I liked holding him out horizontally so that he was in a crawl position and moving him slowly around me to simulate him swimming. Ben liked putting his feet on my chest and “jumping” into the air while I was holding onto him. Here’s a picture taken by our friend Melissa:

Sat 1/23: Another day home…

We were surprised on Friday morning to find that Ben was showing signs of conjunctivitis again — mucous in the corners of his eyes. It wasn’t clear whether that was from pinkeye or just from general congestion. I was not expecting this because Ben had seemed so healthy lately. There was no sniffly, runny nose stage that usually precedes these sorts of secondary infections. But, we had no choice but to keep him home and take him to the doctor. She found traces of conjunctivitis and also a possible developing ear infection. We decided to put him on antibiotics again to quash any chance of the infection developing. Otherwise Ben seems pretty happy and healthy these days.

Wed 1/20: Back on the air…

Many apologies for the blackout over the past week… I’ve been really sick the past three days and haven’t felt up to writing anything. In the mean time, we had a nice visit from Marcie’s mom over the weekend. Mary and I took Ben to Kids Time, a local rec center, and he had a lot of fun there.

On a different subject, it’s become a bit of a challenge figuring out what to feed Ben these days. He doesn’t seem happy with what we have been collecting in the dining hall for lunch. Not being able to use eggs or milk also limits our options somewhat. Marcie is trying to be creative and come up with new ideas for him. Hopefully he will like them!

Ben apparently had a good visit to the speech therapist yesterday (I wasn’t there). She is pleased with his progress and is looking now for him to start putting together two- and three-word sentences.

Thu 1/14: No more puke…

Ben’s healthy as of lunch yesterday, so it seems to have been a pretty quick bug. He’s back in school now and everything is back to normal.

In other news, I finally finished writing the last of the vacation posts, so you can scroll back and read them now if you want a complete picture of the 2009 Wistar holiday trip.

Tue 1/12: If you’re gonna spew…

… try to hit something smooth or easily machine-washable.

I had my first close encounter with child vomit today during a quick trip home to see Ben. He threw up yesterday evening all over Marcie and so we had to keep him home from day care for the day. Everything seemed fine; Ben was playing happily and then decided to lie face-down on top of my legs as I stretched out on the floor. Then, suddenly, HURL… Ben blew chunks all over the front of my pants and on the floor. He had a little more left for Marcie’s shoulder when she picked him up to wash him.

It wasn’t as bad as I had expected it to be; I figured that I would have a nervous breakdown if my child puked all over me. But it’s really true what someone told me once that children totally redefine your definition of “gross”. Anyway, Ben seems to be getting by OK. He’s not eating much and he’s a little lethargic, but by all accounts this should pass pretty quickly. We hope he will be back to school by Thursday.

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